92: How to Send More Emails Without Feeling Annoying
Apr 12, 2025
In the world of online business, email marketing is one of the most powerful tools you have at your fingertips. It builds trust, nurtures leads, and converts readers into clients. And yet, one of the biggest mental blocks that stops entrepreneurs—especially women in heart-centered businesses—from using it effectively is the fear of being “too much.”
Maybe you’ve thought:
- “I don’t want to annoy people…”
- “What if they unsubscribe?”
- “I already posted today…is this too soon to email?”
In Episode 92 of the *Feminine Energy Sales* podcast, Bri Hill cuts straight to the heart of this fear. In just under seven minutes, she offers a powerful mindset shift that can help you approach email marketing with more confidence, intention, and feminine energy alignment.
Let’s break it down and expand the message into something actionable you can take into your own marketing practice.
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## The Fear of Being "Too Much"
So many entrepreneurs—especially those operating from their feminine energy—are naturally sensitive to how they’re being perceived. The idea of sending “too many” emails triggers a fear of rejection or judgment.
But Bri offers a fresh perspective: *This isn’t about you being annoying. It’s about how you’re choosing to show up.*
When you view your emails as something people don’t want, of course you’re going to hesitate to send them. But what if your emails are exactly what someone on your list needs today?
What if your email isn’t a “nudge” or a “reminder”—but a loving invitation?
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## Shift From Selling to Serving
One of Bri’s core messages in this episode is simple but transformative:
> **“If you believe your emails are an opportunity to serve and provide value, they become a gift rather than an imposition.”**
This reframing is everything.
When you believe in what you're offering—whether it’s a coaching package, a digital course, or a simple freebie—you're not being pushy. You’re being generous. You’re giving people the opportunity to step into something that could change their life, business, or mindset.
And that, Bri says, is what makes all the difference.
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## Trust Your Message—and Your People
Another important point Bri makes is about *trust.*
Trust your message. If it comes from alignment, love, and service, then it’s worth sharing.
But also: **trust your audience**. They are grown adults. They can handle an extra email in their inbox. And if it’s not the right time for them, they’ll either ignore it (no big deal!) or unsubscribe (also not a big deal!).
Unsubscribes aren’t rejections—they’re simply redirections. A natural part of growth.
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## Feminine Energy in Action: Email as Connection, Not Just Conversion
Traditional marketing has often focused on hustle, scarcity, and aggressive tactics. That can feel super out of alignment for people who value authenticity, connection, and intuition in their business.
But email marketing doesn’t have to be cold or corporate.
In the feminine energy model that Bri teaches, sales and marketing are rooted in:
- Intention
- Presence
- Magnetism
- Value
- Invitation (not pressure)
So when you write an email from that space, you’re not selling. You’re simply opening a door and saying, “Hey, here’s something I’ve created that might support you. Come in if it feels right.”
That’s not annoying. That’s aligned leadership.
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## Practical Takeaways: How to Start Sending More Emails (From a Place of Power)
If you’re ready to send more emails without spiraling into self-doubt, here’s where to start:
### 1. **Redefine What “Too Much” Means**
Ask yourself: “Who told me that emailing three times a week is too much?” And is that belief actually serving your business or just keeping you small?
### 2. **Write From Service**
Before you hit send, ask: *Does this email help, inspire, inform, or invite?* If yes, go ahead.
### 3. **Detach From the Outcome**
You don’t need a perfect open rate or sales every time you send. Think long game—every email builds trust, even if it doesn’t lead to a click.
### 4. **Let It Be Simple**
You don’t need a fancy funnel or sales copy to start. Sometimes, a simple email that sounds like a note to a friend is more powerful than a polished pitch.
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## Final Thoughts: You’re Not Annoying—You’re Empowered
The fear of “being annoying” is often just a fear of being visible. But visibility is part of leadership. And leadership means trusting your voice and your message enough to show up—even when it feels stretchy.
So send the email. Share the story. Promote the offer. Follow up again.
You never know who’s been waiting for exactly what you have to say.
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